My kid wet the bed, and I’m grateful...

My kid wet the bed, and I’m grateful...

(+ Free Download) “Way of the Cross for Children” (link below)

This morning, I woke up to a long-time-potty-trained child hugging me. With damp clothes, and the telltale smell of a bedwetting accident. 

And I thanked Jesus for this opportunity to love him, and clean him up with patience. 

Before you think I’m the SAINTLIEST of all mothers, let’s back up 24 hours. 

I had just gone to Confession and received beautiful graces, feeling empowered to be SUCH A GOOD HOLY MOM.

And not even 12 hours later, I found myself losing MY MIND over typical kid stuff: a kid dropped a full roll of toilet paper in the toilet, a crying and clinging baby, a toddler screeching because he wanted to watch SOMETHING on TV RIGHT NOW. And I LOST IT. 

Bedtime prayers were rushed, I found myself yelling more than loving my children. And I just wanted the day to be DONE.

Satan must have been so happy. I went to bed last night feeling like “I’ll just never be the holy, patient mother I’m supposed to be”.

But then, God gave me the opportunity to turn it around the VERY NEXT MORNING. 

The same child who I felt so angry with - over an honest accident of dropping the toilet paper, needed my love and care to clean up an even bigger mess: the bedwetting scene. 

And this time, I did it with love, empathy, and patience.

The great thing about motherhood is when you lose your patience, you’ll soon have another opportunity to show it.

God is so good. My children are good, and I am good. 

We are a little more than a month away from the start of Lent, and I’ll be reflecting on these past 24 hours as I pray about what I want to do for lent as a Mother and as a family. 

As we’re starting to think about Lent, I created a “Children’s Way of the Cross” with the hymn “At the Cross Her Station Keeping”.

As a mother, there is something so sad and beautiful to read its lyrics: Jesus’ Passion from the perspective of His Mother. 

Children can really relate to the emotion of Our Lord’s Passion and death when they look at it through the lens of His Mother. The mother-child relationship is one every child has experienced, and can help them enter this prayer with understanding. 

Here’s the download (while it's still free to access). 

I recommend reading and singing it together as a family first. The children will become familiar with the tune of the hymn. And then, let the child play the music on the Playful Pitch Bars on his own. He’ll look through the pictures and interact with the story of Jesus’ redemptive love as he’s working through the music independently. 

 

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FAQs

The Faith

How does this instrument help teach the Faith?

We use traditional Catholic Hymns and Bible Songs to introduce music playing. By including songs of the Faith in your Domestic Church and traditions, it helps children learn and feel and grow with the beautiful lyrics and melodies of the Faith.

Many of our customers have also incorporated this instrument into their family’s prayer time, which includes playing and singing hymns after their family rosary in the evenings.

Music is such an integral part of Catholic worship and experience, and Playful Pitch makes it accessible to the Church’s youngest members.

What are other ways we can use this instrument as a family?

Some customers have used it as a guide on incorporating music of the Liturgical seasons and specials feasts throughout the year. They sing and listen to the Playful Pitch songs together as a family, and then their children play the songs on the pitch bars independently throughout the week.

We have customers who have used Playful Pitch to allow the youngest members join the older children to play music together. The older child will play the song on the piano or violin (and a variety of other instruments), while the younger child plays the tune on the Playful Pitch Bars.

The Music

Do I have to know how to read music to help my child use Playful Pitch?

Nope - our notation is color coded and intuitive. We use familiar and popular tunes so learners can know how the song should sound - and use our friendly, simplified notation to play it out!

How is Playful Pitch notation different than reading other music?

Our notation and instruments are color-coded to make music-reading intuitive and fun. We also slightly change rhythm notation - so that long notes appear long, and short notes appear small.

We blend traditional black-and-white music notes with a fun, easy-to-read system for a gentle introduction to music reading.

Will there be new songs available in the future?

Yes, The Online Classroom will have a new melody to play with the change of every Church Season, or every month. Additionally, we are constantly designing new printed song cards that we’ll put in our shop when they’re ready!

The Instrument

FAQs about our Pitch Bar Set

What’s the difference between Playful Pitch Bars and toy xylophones?

Toy instruments are typically made with low sound quality, cheaper materials, or with battery-operated, electronic sounds.

Playful Pitch Bars are made from professionally-tuned, high-end aluminum bars and beech wood – for a child to learn music-reading and pitch-training from a real, professional, durable instrument.

Do the digital bars work just as well as the physical instrument?

Unfortunately - No. There’s just no substitute to a real, natural, professionally-tuned instrument. The timing, feeling, and sound of digital instruments will never be as good as the physical thing.

We love the digital bars for introducing kids to the concept of our music notation! But it works much much better for the real instrument.

Does it take a lot of guidance/time to teach a child how to use this instrument?

We designed Playful Pitch to be as child-led and intuitive as possible. We believe in the Montessori principle of fostering an independent work environment with rich materials, so that the child’s natural curiosity and delight take over the learning process.

An adult may demonstrate the initial set up and care, but after a short time, the child’s natural love of music and intuition should be able to take over!

As parents, we personally love to send our 4 and 6 year old children downstairs to play the pitch bars independently while the toddler and baby are taking a nap. The sound is soft enough to keep the babies asleep. We love to hear the pleasant, subtle background sounds of the pitch bars in the home, similar to soft wind chimes.

What age is this instrument/method for?

It was designed as an introduction to music making and reading for ages 3-10. Though, most of our customer feedback tells us that THE WHOLE FAMILY loves this instrument. Adults and teens have just as much fun as children, playing beloved familiar tunes on the color coded instrument.

Our most common review is “EVERYONE is wanting their turn on it....from the youngest child to the parents”. Many parents messaged to tell us they secretly played with it before wrapping it up and giving it to their children.

We LOVE that!!

Why not just start kids off on piano or violin?

We believe that fostering a love for music making should start with a play-based approach that capitalizes on the child’s natural love and intuition for music.

Formal lessons often come with a stigma of overwhelming assignments and mandated practicing - things that can squash a child’s joy for music making. If they first experience success on our gentle process and simplified with relative ease, it builds a confident, joyful musician who becomes inspired to work through the later challenges of music making.

Also - some kids and parents are just not ready for the time and financial commitments of formal lessons and professional instruments. Playful Pitch provides a way to introduce children to music, without spending the thousands it costs to buy a professional instrument and provide ongoing lessons.

I want to order the bars now, where can I get them?

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